
About Lisa
Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. With a background in psychology and storytelling, she helps individuals and organizations explore how meaning, creativity, and self-trust intersect—especially during periods of transition, grief, or growth.
In addition to her work in narrative and resilience, Lisa is a student of Human Design and a certified Akashic Records reader, integrating intuitive and reflective frameworks into talks that support alignment, clarity, and conscious choice. Her speaking style is grounded, compassionate, and deeply relatable, blending story, insight, and practical takeaways. A frequent instructor for Jane Friedman and a regular presenter at national conferences, she is known for her grounded, compassionate presence and her ability to provide language for the complex emotional experiences people often feel but struggle to name as she empowers them to take charge of their lives. Her essays have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, Hippocampus Literary Magazine, Kenyon Review Online, and on Risk!
Performance on The Moth stage
Understanding Trauma-Informed Writing Coaching
Clip from Memoir Backstory taught for Jane Friedman
Clip from Memoir Backstory taught for Jane Friedman
Facing Mortality – A Journey from Illness to Purpose
Why We Feel Compelled to Write Our Stories
A Shattering Loss – Confronting Faith in the Face of Tragedy
Turning Pain into Purpose – A Story of Courage and Transformation
Transforming Pain into Growth

A Sampling of Keynote, Workshop, and Conference Topics
Finding Your Yes: Alignment, Choice, and the Courage to Trust Yourself
How do you know when something is truly a yes—and why is it so hard to follow it? In this talk, Lisa explores how conditioning, fear, and obligation pull us away from our inner truth. Through expert storytelling, elements of Human Design, neuroscience, and reflection questions, she helps audiences reconnect with their own signals of alignment. Participants leave with language and tools to make conscious choices rooted in self-trust rather than self-abandonment, and practical strategies for living in alignment with who they truly are.
Permission to Pursue Your Passions: Following What Lights You Up
Many of us know what lights us up—but feel guilty or afraid to follow what might feel like impossible or impractical dreams. Lisa examines why passion so often gets sidelined and what it costs us when it does. Drawing on lived experience and insights she’s gleaned through her years as a trauma-informed coach, she reframes passion as a vital source of clarity and energy, not indulgence. This talk invites audiences to reconnect with what matters most and take meaningful steps toward pursuing it.
Choosing Yourself Without Burning It All Down
Choosing yourself doesn’t have to mean walking away from everything you’ve previously done or everyone you know. In this talk, Lisa explores the myths that frame self-honoring choices as selfish or destructive. She offers a grounded, compassionate approach to choosing yourself while staying in relationship with others. Audiences will leave with a clearer understanding of how alignment can deepen—not damage—connection.
Cracking the People-Pleasing Code
People-pleasing isn’t a flaw—it’s a learned survival strategy. Lisa unpacks where it comes from, how it shows up in our lives, and the neuroscience around why it’s so hard to stop. In this story-driven talk that draws upon her personal and professional experiences, she helps audiences identify their true yes and honor their no without shame. This talk offers a powerful reframe that replaces obligation with choice and clarity.
The Gifts of Grief: Meaning, Memory, and the Stories That Carry Us
Grief is often treated as something to move through quickly—or hide altogether. Lisa invites audiences to consider grief as a teacher that reshapes meaning, memory, and identity. She draws upon her experience as a survivor of suicide loss to craft vivid resilience-based stories, offers practical exercises, and explores poignant questions alongside her audience as she explores how grief clarifies what matters most. This talk offers a compassionate, honest approach to living alongside loss without being defined by it.
Radical Self-Forgiveness: Releasing Shame and Returning to Wholeness
Through a story-driven process informed by the works of Desmond Tutu, Fred Luskin, Tara Brachm and others, Lisa examines the hidden ways shame and self-blame keep us stuck. In this talk, she walks the audience through a path toward radical self-forgiveness grounded in understanding rather than absolution. Audiences leave with a renewed sense of wholeness and permission to move forward without dragging the past behind them.
Is All Really Well? Finding Stability in Uncertain Times
In moments of collective and personal uncertainty, it’s tempting to bypass discomfort with forced optimism. Lisa challenges the idea that “everything happens for a reason” and offers a more honest path to stability. This talk explores how grounding ourselves in reality—not denial—creates resilience. Audiences gain tools for steadiness, meaning, and hope without minimizing what’s hard.
You Are More Than Your Traumas: Building the 2.0 Story of Your Life
Our hardest experiences can shape us—but they don’t have to define us. Lisa explores how trauma narratives can quietly limit what we believe is possible. Through story and reflection, she helps audiences loosen those narratives and imagine what comes next. This talk invites participants to author a more expansive, self-directed version of their lives.

A Sampling of the Writing Courses She Can Teach
Managing the Present in Memoir
Writing memoir means engaging with the present moment of experience as it unfolds on the page. In this workshop, Lisa helps writers learn how to anchor scenes, emotions, and sensory details in the here and now. You’ll explore techniques for balancing reflection with immediacy so your narrative feels alive and engaging. Writers leave with actionable tools for making the present feel present in every scene.
Memoir Backstory
Backstory isn’t just “what happened before”—it’s the connective tissue that gives meaning to your narrative arcs. This course helps writers identify which backstory matters, why it matters, and how to weave it in without slowing the momentum of your memoir. Through guided prompts and craft strategies, you’ll learn to integrate backstory with intention and clarity. The result? A richer, more compelling narrative that feels both deep and urgent.
Mastering Trauma Scenes
Trauma scenes are among the hardest to write, both emotionally and narratively. In this intensive workshop, Lisa teaches craft techniques for showing trauma with honesty and integrity while protecting your emotional safety. You’ll learn how to balance detail with restraint, avoid retraumatization, and shape scenes that resonate with readers. This course offers structure, support, and concrete strategies for writing your most difficult material with care.
The Psychology of Memoir
Memoir isn’t just craft—it’s psychology in motion. This course explores how identity, memory, perception, and inner dialogue shape the stories we tell. Lisa combines psychological insight with narrative technique so writers can understand why certain themes persist and how to work with them effectively. You’ll come away with new language for understanding your characters (including yourself) and a deeper awareness of how psychological forces impact your story’s shape.
Crafting Your Memoir’s Beat Sheet
Every narrative has beats—moments of tension, choice, and change that keep readers turning pages. In this workshop, Lisa guides writers through a step-by-step process for creating a beat sheet for your memoir manuscript. You’ll identify key turning points, emotional arcs, and thematic progression, making it easier to revise with purpose. This course gives you a visual roadmap for your story’s heart and forward motion.
Structuring Your Memoir
Structure is the invisible architecture of your story. This course helps you find the structure that best serves your material—whether linear, thematic, layered, or experimental. Lisa offers frameworks and examples for mapping your manuscript so that each section reinforces your central meaning. By the end, you’ll be able to move confidently from draft chaos to structural coherence.
Writer Self-Sabotage
We all know that inner voice that whispers, not good enough… not yet… maybe later… This workshop examines why we self-sabotage and how it shows up in our writing lives—via procrastination, perfectionism, shame, and ambivalence. Lisa offers psychological insight, narrative framing, and practical strategies to interrupt these patterns. Writers leave with clear steps for moving from avoidance to agency.
Writing About Trauma Without Retraumatizing Yourself
Writing trauma requires courage—and care. In this compassionate, craft-informed course, Lisa teaches writers how to approach trauma scenes with techniques that protect emotional safety. You’ll learn grounding practices, pacing strategies, and narrative structures that allow you to engage with hard material without overwhelming your nervous system. This course is both supportive and empowering, offering a path to honest storytelling with integrity.
Real Stories, Real Results
“Thank you, Lisa, for all the contextual work you put into your workshop. It
is helping me to determine exactly where I am in my writing and book
journey, where I need to go, and what it takes to get there.”
Anthony Williams
Workshop Participant“Your sermon was probably one of the BEST and most authentic
presentations I’ve heard. Your story was achingly moving yet inspiring and
hope-filled.”
